What would you do for a Klondike bar? I’d do nothing…but I did show my nipple once for a Redbull and vodka…
But on a serious note – would you allow your mate to mentally/physically abuse you for access to their fame and fortune? By now, you’ve heard about Ray and Janay Rice and how he knocked her tha FUCK out!!
Now this wasn’t just a “oh, you pushed me up against the wall. I’m calling the police.” No!! This man hit her like she was a man – and looked on as if he had a WHOLE pocket full of fucks, and he wouldn’t give her one. Not a one. Hell, he even looked like he was checking his Instagram page while she was laying there unconscious!!! After half-ass dragging her body out of the elevator, he didn’t even have the decency to cover her behind, stepping over and around her as if she were a dead animal!!
Not only did she marry him after that, she is now DEFENDING his behavior on social media. She claims that he has since apologized and that this should all be behind us right? She’s even gone as far as to say the MEDIA is to blame for her now “unhappy” home, being as though her abuser-boo is now out of a job…
If he was truly sorry for what he did, it never would’ve happened in the first place. It’s one thing to apologize, another to show penitence. Looking down at her while she lay lifeless on the ground as if it this shit happens all of the time…he showed absolutely no remorse. Not an OUNCE. He was probably only sorry that he was caught, not about committing the act itself.
I have to ask myself, is she with him for the money or did she put up with this shit because she loves him that deeply? I’ve never been in love before, but I know that it is NOT supposed to hurt. Figuratively and LITERALLY! I have yet to meet a man crazy enough to put his hands on me, but if I do, and should I be in love at the time, my hope is that I’ll love MYSELF more and walk away. (I don’t think I’ll have to deal with that EVER though…I’m just THAT crazy and slightly narcissistic…)
…and please believe that that incident probably wasn’t the first time…and probably won’t be the last.
In my opinion, that media leak probably saved her life. Without the fame and money to tempt her to allow this behavior towards her, she just got a golden ticket to walk tha’ fuck on by!!…People treat you how you allow them to treat and abusers abuse…that’s just what the fuck they do…and they gonna keep doing it.
…A co-worker of mine with an abusive boyfriend thought that when he hit her, it showed that he cared and that he loved her. She thought is was “cute” that he would get so jealous and even went as far as to plant condoms in her purse knowing that he would find them and get upset. Well one day, he cared so much, she had to be hospitalized for week. Good thing she ended the relationship before he had the chance to “love” her to death huh…?
Welp those are my two cents on abusive men and the women that co-sign that shit by defending and rationalizing their behavior…I don’t know why people just can’t keep their hands to themselves. If a person makes you THAT angry, then you don’t need to be with them!
Till next time